Rani will sleep with anything that walks. He has a weakness for the ladies and he’s not ashamed to hide it. He doesn’t have a type, but the flashiest girl in the room usually gets Shotgun. Blondes usually do the trick. He’s not dreamy, he’s good looking, smart yet goofy. He’s the loudest in the room and his laugh is contagious. He usually travels with hot wing-woman; he believes it makes him more approachable. It does.
Rani’s never been in love- although he thinks he has. Most of those girls were in serious relationships. His friends have tried to tell him, it’s not them he’s in love with, but the fact they’re unattainable. He doesn’t get it. Every girl Rani can’t get Rani wants.
He’s had some very close calls. They’ve all started off as physical flings. When he finds a girl that is both hot and makes him laugh he’ll have dinner with her. She’ll think they’re dating and he’ll play along, until something better comes along.
Rani’s not a mean guy. He’s actually really nice. He’s confused. Although, he secretly feels like a player, he’ll always deny it. He just feels like a kid in a candy store, and doesn’t understand why he has to choose. He’s not particularly rich, at least that’s not how he gets girls. He’s really funny.
Girls fall in love with him but he leaves a bitter taste in their mouth.
I’m convinced that even the biggest and baddest of players want to be loved. They may not have the will to remain monogamous but they too strive for a relationship, where they can kick back and be themselves. To be with a girl who can throw back some beers, a girl that gets along with “the guys” and a girl that he can cuddle with while watching the Animal Planet. The players that deny this just haven’t found the right one yet.
I can be wrong. Maybe there are some men out there who just don’t wanna settle, those who don’t need to buy the entire cow to enjoy some fresh milk. What do you think? Bisoux
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I have this feeling that lately, all men are afraid of commitment! They just want to enjoy & have fun!!
& since every man in Lebanon gets to have 7 women, i guess this ratio encourages such behavior!
Well most guys are like that but generalization is never the answer! I have a guy friend who’s exactly like Rani but as u said Ivy no matter how much of a player a guy is deep down he wants to find this one girl who will unconsciously change how he acts and make him settle without the slightest clue :)!
The ratio has become 7 to 1 now ? obviously i’m out of date .. and need to get busy-ier .. lol
seriously i think it’s so true when it comes to everyone needs to be loved even players , and it will change their (or should i say our lol ) behavior when they do fall in love and find her , the one ..
one little sticky note though or tip to all the girls out there if u r really seeking love : less with the judging according to outer appearance , money , car etc.. why don’t u try other stuff for a change ?
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i have to agree with Dana… i also have a friend who is just like that
but the difference is that he has become a player because he has been hurt by ex girlfriends…
but the weird part is that he has been seeing this girl secretly for a few month now, he doesn’t want anyone to know about their “relationship”. That gives him the option of being with someone he really likes without having to commit since they are both seeing other people on the side and live in different countries….
Maybe there is something wrong with both of them … anyway my point is every player is searching for the “one” even if they are too afraid to admit it
i think some men, just love to flirt, but commitment doesn’t have to change that … i think guys & girls that are promiscuous daters have yet to trip into someone completely unconventional to their dating types that just makes things go in a different direction..
It takes two to have a relationship & to end it.
I hate blaming the guy all the time.. girls sometimes need to mature up, to stand their ground and join the game.
Maybe if you were to look deeper, you will find he has some issue with love and commitment. He probably wants to be loved but has created a barrier to it for some reason.
Then he needs to see a therapist and figure that shit out, because his personal problems are hurting other people.
Ratio 7 to 1 hehe funny, though which 7 and which 1?
If the 1 is serious and looking, will he/she has the same ratio? I guess not 😛
Not that I side with Rani, but beleive that its the 7’s choice for deciding on their priorities which most of the times aim at attracting the flirt.
The question could also be twist around making it “If A Woman Could Have Them All, Would She Settle For Just One Man 😛 “
Settling down for 1 is overrated. Mainly because you can find different girls with different traits. Some are adventurous. Others are intelligent. And yet another group of girls are funny.
The word player has bad connotations with it, because it implies playing with a girl’s emotions. Rani is doing that. An alternative is to be honest with girls in your life, and let them know that you are dating other women. Some won’t like it, but surprisingly, most will accept it and still want to be part of your life.
We aren’t against dating 1 women, but the approach isn’t going out looking for girlfriends, like most guys. We have options, will date different women, and every now and then (usually a few years in between), a woman grows on us, and it just so happens that we spend more time with her. “Wanting to settle down” is IMO the wrong way of saying it. We are “open to being exclusive.”
— A “player” who is currently seeing 4 girls, and has 2 dates this week with new ones.
I am someone who strongly believes that people are free to do whatever they want as long as they are not stepping on others. This is why I think if a “player” (I am using this term with caution) wants to be a player, then it’s perfectly cool as long as they are honest about who they are dating and about exclusivity and what-not with the people they are dating.
That said, personally, I wouldn’t start seeing a man who was dating 2 or 3 women at the same time as me. I believe that I deserve to be more than a number in his dating schedule. I’d like to think that his main interest is in the possibility of something serious. That’s because when I start seeing someone, I do so with the intention of exploring where things would go and if they could develop into a commited relationship. This is why I wouldn’t be comfortable with a “player” who is seeing several women simultaneously.
However, I understand why some men and women are okay with and enjoy dating several people together, but I do not encourage it. I also often wonder: How do they keep up? How do they remember whose story is whose? How can they emotionally and sexually be available to many people at once? How do they get out of it in a nice and smoothe way?
– A woman, who although acknowledges that monogamy can be hard work, loves commitment and being in a relationship with only 1 man.
hi Posh, I totally agree with you and have always wondered the same” How do they keep up? How do they remember whose story is whose? etcc….”. By the way Monogamy is not hard work when there is harmony and understanding between the couple- I see no reason to fool around; however understand why others might do that.
wish you a nice day.