The best part of a relationship is right at the start. Yes, yes, yes love grows with time blah blah blah, but you can’t deny what a thrill it is to actually start dating someone you really like. Someone who you know likes you but keeps you guessing. He’s got you right where he wants you – on your toes!
But the decisions you make during this time are also going to be the factors that make or break it. Yes, you connected, sure it feels like you’ve known each other forever, but that is surely not a reason for you to spend all weekend cooped up in his house. A girl’s independence is one of the most alluring factors for men; you can’t just drop it at the first sign of love. We all love us some game and you gotta keep playing. There is no finish line.
And that’s what I fear the most in a relationship, comfort. We all seek it, but it can be the number one destructive ingredient in a relationship. Couples do this mistake a lot, one minute they are dating, clubbing, pubbing and the next, they are home on a Saturday night ordering pizza and watching a movie. Ideally, that sounds like a nice plan, but not when it becomes the rule rather than the exception. Because when you get to the pizza too soon, you’re more likely to kiss your man goodbye even sooner.
So I’m not suggesting you get to work or class hungover every day to keep your relationship alive, all I’m saying is try not to get too comfortable too fast . We like to feel wanted but we also love the chase. Don’t you agree? Bisoux
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i agreeeeeeeeeeee
Ur kidding right? the best thing about being in a relationship is the PIZZA NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ivy your words are wise, its a turn off when a girl drops everything when she meets the a guy. I love it when I call her and she has other plans it makes me want her even more.
J&B
I think the most important thing here is BALANCE. While I agree with @stacii that pizza night is one of the best things about being in a relationship, you also have to try actively to keep the flame alive!! Do your own things, hang out with your own group of friends, keep yourself in good shape, go out from time to time and socialize with other people.. Balance is the name of the game!
No games. I hate games. I believe that you should be yourself. Unless you have to sleep with every guy you met on the first/second/tird/4º/5º… date. Im not saying thats a bad thing, but if you do that and you do want a serious relationship, just play the game and do not do what you feel like doing that fast. Im not that kind, never felt like doing it but if I do meet a guy and if I like him, I would kiss him on the first date. Im not a womanizer fan, never dated one. They are not my type at all… but if I met a guy and if hes what I like, I think theres no need for games.