Listen up boys, I’m sure many of you are pretty proud of the way you handle yourselves around us women. I’m sorry to break it to you, you don’t always get it right, actually rarely. So take notes if you wanna keep a lasting impression on the girl you may meet in Monot tonight…
1) Make Eye Contact– but DON’T STARE. Nothing gets our attention more than a man that can look us straight in the eye, without fidgeting on his Blackberry every two seconds. Most importantly, don’t be silly enough to check out another girl , thinking that we can’t notice.
2) Don’t Overdo It- We get it, your hot , smart and you gotta really good career. BUT the last thing we wanna do is date a bragger. This ain’t a job interview honey so don’t oversell yourself.
3)Be a Gentleman- this may sound like the oldest tip in the book but still many men we meet today don’t open doors for us or walk ahead of us or even sit in the passenger seat of a car while we sit in the back. Get some manners!
4)Easy On the Liquor– There is nothing tackier than a man who can’t walk straight. We like our men in control. Typsy-ness can evolve into fun conversations drunkenness may cause you to make some moves on the dance floor we were hoping you didn’t have! Bisoux
Sean says
in guys defense, girls you should
1- smile at a guy if he makes eye contact… or dont look at all if you’re not interested… dont’ make crazy eye sex with him then when he appraoches you become Queen “I eat men at lunch” 🙂
2- when having a conversation with a guy asking questions help… don’t let us talk all night or ask u a million question because you barely talk…. if u want us to talk about something you like and/or interested in… HINT… we r not wizards you know… some girls like cars, some likes movies, “some dont like anything at all and should get laid more often” hahahah i am just kiddin not need to hang me.
3-yes chivalry is dead…. guess who killed it… does bra-burning say anything to u?
but to be fair, yes some men can be apes sometimes… but hey… we are easily trained 😉
4- now now… men barely get drunk… but the annoying part is you r too sober around us that you even notice our maybe “over the top” tipsiness… hehehe I mean have a drink or two… laugh dance enjoy… mentioning drinks you r i a club or a pub and alcohol is the main theme… if u gonna go there and have one drink all night then complain that everyone is drunk around you … well… ppl drink to get tipsy.. (if your guy is the only guy who gets hammered everytime you gi out.. i think you should revise your option hehehhe)
can I say bisoux too? or will it look too gayish? LOL
😉 Cheers
smh says
Great comment Sean – I’ll add:
1. Lebanese girls and their eye sex followed by ‘too good for you’… haven’t seen this phenomenon in other countries.
2. Been asked about my career and car too many times in the first 2 minutes in Beirut. Try being interested in something else.
3. Look for chivalry in more subtle areas. Seen too many women friends fall for a ‘door opener’ and seen him quickly open a door and leave as soon as he gets what he wants.
4. Easy on the liquor? Be easier to talk to and guys won’t need as much liquid courage, or perhaps more alcohol allows for guys to be interesting enough to get rid of that bored look on your faces (see #2).