In case you missed them here are some of my dating tips that the lovely Claire shared on Light FM’s (90.5)   Friday afternoon drive.  If you haven’t tuned in, you must, for some of  hottest dating and fashion tips in Beirut, while listening to some stress-free fabulous music.

At This point, you probably consider yourself a Pro in the dating scene in Beirut, but everyone knows that even the best of players need to sharpen those skills every now and then.

Long term relationships are comfy, but dating in Beirut can get very exciting.  Yes there are 6 girls to every guy, but it’s a good reason for ladies to ditch conformity and make a lasting impression.

1)      Ladies, You don’t need to dress in some super- skimpy outfit to get his attention, I’m not suggesting you get covered–up either , instead just be yourself,  show some skin in a sultry yet classy way. You wanna grab his attention not every sleaze ball’s in the room.

2)      The alpha male may not always be the right guy for you. Yes, he has the broadest shoulders you’ve seen on man, but that doesn’t mean he’ll give you one to cry on…  He’s the loudest in the place and has the most friends but his machoness may make him a less likely candidate for a committed relationship. The other cute guy may seem shorter but he’s probably funnier and more down-to earth, qualities you should be looking for in a boyfriend.

3)      Letting him buy you one drink is fine, but don’t let him pay for everything.  Some of us girls in Lebanon, think that a guy that picks up the bill  is a gentleman, but that may not always be the case.  You’re independent, and you should not only buy your own drinks but invite him to some as well, men love independent strong women, so be one!

4)      Kissing on the first date. Sure Lebanese guys like outgoing independent women, but they also have a possessive quality to them. They love a girl that can play hard-to-get, so don’t put-out just yet, keep him wanting more. If  he leans in for a kiss, give him your cheek.

Places To Go and NOT To Go For Your First Date:

1)      Dinner is always a good choice. This way you can have good conversation and check out table manners, maybe she’s rude to the waiter, would you still want to date her?

2)      Drinks at a friendly, quiet bar in Gemmayzeh, steer clear from the loud sloppy ones, instead try out a cute spot like GEM or Joe Penias for some fresh cocktails.

3)      Don’t hit up a club on your first date, you won’t hear each other speak; you’ll probably end up drunk and pull some moves you may regret on the dance floor.

4)      Don’t meet parents, if he’s introducing you already you SHOULD  be freaked out, he probably does the same with all the girls he dates. Meeting the parents should be special and it should come after at least 3 more dates or more. BISOUX