This is a tough one. We all have friends with boyfriends that get a little too excited when they see us. Let’s not confuse over-friendliness here with something sleazy and uncalled for, but where do you draw the line? Picture this, he’s the first to notice you need a re-fill, he gets a little too-close when you’re watching a movie on the couch, and you constantly catch him staring at you but then he doesn’t look away!
When he has a little too much to drink he grabs you for a dance and gets a little too touchy –feely. You’re always looking at your friend for reassurance. On the other hand, you don’t find him attractive and you would never even date a friend’s ex let alone even think of a friend’s man like that. But you don’t wanna seem unfriendly.
Should you tell your friend and risk being put out in the cold especially since he didn’t really do anything, and worse, if she confronts him and he denies it and she believes him :0
Or do you just let it go and keep your distance even at the risk of not seeing your friend as much? Or is this just a case of paranoia? Bisoux
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how about you tell HIM in a smart and funny way in FRONT of his GF… ” You are too touchy(or whatever adjective that would descrive the situation) for a guy that’s dating a friend of mine” .. hehehhe that would get her attention and put him in a ackward decision. hehehhe but keep a smile on and let your msg go through.
let me know how it goes
I liked the fact that you added that you are not attracted to him.
what if you don’t know the girl?
another question to consider – what if your friend with the bf is out flirting with guys while you are passing out roses?
If we are going to consider our friend’s exes out of the game, this makes it even harder for us to find men. So seriously I think we shouldn’t blame ourselves if we are attracted to them or vice versa. I precise only EX, not her current bf, otherwise it won’t be very ethical.